IMC: Janay congrats on your engagement news. So thrilled and excited for you. You know it’s not easy to find a good man but you did. How did you meet your fiance? Was it love at first sight?
Janay: Funny thing is I first met him in 2009 online through a mutual friend It was through a video on facebook with him being his crazy fun self always talking about Christ first ..love at first sight i wouldnt say so lol but I did see myself becoming great friends with him because his personality fit mine
IMC: You are a mother to an adorable little boy. How soon did you introduce him to your guy?
Janay: I introduced Myles to Robinson in group date settings cause we share the same circle of friends. We were friends prior for 6 years actually and through the years we’ve become best friends.
IMC: Now before you met your prince..you had a copy of my book and came out to a round table discussion I had going about it. It was truly a great time of sharing, thank you for being a part of it. This book has helped both single woman and men in different ways. In what way did it help you?
Janay: I think that he SRW is a great book for practical steps and guidelines when it comes to desiring a godly relationships and how to decipher warning signs and how to overcome them. The book has helped me honestly just to seek God in all i do trusting in him knowing he has the best for me. Reading this book i understood the importance of having Godly counsel and accountability
IMC: I talk about a three years or less rule. How long was your courtship? And from the options below which describes your courtship best, please explain?
1. Smooth Sailing
2. Rocky
3. Mild turbulence then sunny skies
Janay: Although Ive known Robby for 6 years we only started dating last year October so 8 months of courting until he Proposed. Although it took me years to finally give him a chance he told me that he knew that He was going to marry Me even though I had my doubts. He Trusted God allowed me to grow and be whole on my own within Christ.
IMC: How did prayer/Holy Spirit help to guide you in your relationship?
Janay: Like every relationships we have our hardships. Out of the 3 i would have to say Mild turbulence then sunny skies would best describe our courtship because when the turbulence hits we know how to get things back under control by communicating, knowing each others love language, being transparent and ultimately keeping Christ as the head pilot of our relationship. Through the good bad and the Ugly we make it out better seeing sunny skies each time.
IMC: From a scale of 1-10 how was he at pursuing you?
Janay: GIRL!! Prayer and The Holy spirit helped guide me into our relationship by providing direction, understanding of who and what Love is and supplying wisdom in my every step
IMC: Which words describe your proposal best:
1. Finally
2. I had a feeling it was coming.
Janay: LOL 1-10 is to small he was giving his all 100% FINALLY!!!!!
IMC: What words of advice do you have for other single mothers out there who may be on the verge of giving up on love?
Janay: My Advice to every single mother is to fall in Love with Christ and in due time when he knows youre ready he will send you a Man after His own heart xoxo
IMC: Thank you Janay for sharing with my readers. Enjoy your engagement and continue to make God your first love and the ROCK in which you both stand as an engaged couple.
Do you want to also prepare to meet your future mate? Get the right focus?
Janay is just one of many who have gone on to meeting their future mate after allowing the SRW book to minister to where they were.
Why not do the same? You can only be even more prepared.
