Hey SRW, yes I’m going there this DECEMBER..lol.
If you’re not careful this holiday season someone may just make you their “BOOTY CALL.”
For those who are new to this terminology, a booty call is when a man or woman gives another man or woman a “sexual invitation for a rendezvous.” (Well, that’s how simple it was in the 90’s at least). Now booty callers have become even more sophisticated in their approach. They come disguised as men or women who are willing to take you out and even convince you of wanting to be in a relationship; when in actuality they’re not. They’re just interested in one thing; YOUR BOOTY under them sheets. And their prey? Individuals who are sexually frustrated, lonely and desperate for a relationship. (In my new book “Why Are Christian Girls So Easy” I give girls and women the heads up on Mr. Opportunistic; you know the guy who uses smooth talk to win the ladies over…I talk about the type of woman he looks for and much more. Be sure to get your copy!)
Friends, I hope you’re not offended by me saying it, like it is. I am simply a woman with a 21st century mandate to empower as many singles as possible to avoid what I call “relationship collisions” and arrive safely to their destination of marriage in one piece.
Has your experiences with women or men left you feeling like you’re nothing more than a booty call?
Well, you are worth so much more than a booty call!
You are God’s property on reserve for a special man or woman who will know your value (without sex) and want to still make you their bride/groom. BELIEVE that TODAY!.
So, if Miss or Mr. Booty Call comes a calling or knocking at your door this holiday season give them the real BOOT by letting them know “MY BODY, IT”S THE LORD’s TEMPLE! and this homegirl/homeboy don’t play dat!”
© Tanika Chambers, Author of Single, Ready & Waiting: Your Guide To Courtship and Why Are Christian Girls So Easy